Pride and shame aren’t opposites—they often coexist. In modern queer life, confidence is less about perfection and more about learning to exist without resistance.

First dates aren’t about perfection—they’re about presence. From energy to small details, here’s what actually stands out in gay dating.

From daytime parades to late-night parties, Pride outfits work best when they match the moment. Here’s how bodice, harness, briefs, and swim fit into it.

Stonewall wasn’t just a riot—it was a moment where resistance became visible. A shift from quiet endurance to collective refusal.

Hookups aren’t disappearing—they’re evolving. In today’s gay dating culture, connection and casual aren’t opposites anymore.

Labels haven’t disappeared—they’ve become more flexible. In modern queer culture, identity is less about fixed definitions and more about evolving self-expression.

Confidence doesn’t start with the outfit—it starts underneath. What you wear first shapes how you move, feel, and show up long before anyone else sees it.  

Femboy isn’t a trend—it’s a quiet rebellion. Softness, control, and gender expression without explanation are redefining what masculinity can look like.

From moody spa vibes to chrome revival and textured stone finishes, here’s what’s making bathrooms the hottest design space of 2026.

A sharp, in-depth look at pinkwashing in marketing and how queer audiences evaluate authenticity, representation, and real LGBTQ+ commitment beyond rainbow branding.

Black queer culture didn’t just influence gay culture — it built much of its style, sound, and structure. This Black History Month, we trace how ballroom, house music, activism, and...

Men’s lingerie has moved from underground subculture to mainstream fashion conversation. Here’s why lace, mesh, and sheer styles are redefining modern masculinity and intimate wear.

Attraction starts long before touch. From first dates to long-term relationships, intimate wear quietly shapes confidence, communication, and connection — influencing how queer desire grows, deepens, and lasts.

Underwear in 2026 is intentional, expressive, and unapologetically queer. From sculpted briefs and soft-kink textures to bold colors and gender-fluid cuts, these are the gay underwear trends redefining desire, comfort,...

From leather and denim to softness and play, Castro Clones, Bears, and Twinks didn’t just influence gay fashion — they built it. A look at the subcultures that turned clothing...

A playful, Gen-Z quiz decoding the queer energy you’re bringing into 2026 — from main character confidence to soft power intimacy, and everything in between.

A quiet edit of the night’s most confident looks — dancers, movement, and moments where ThePack felt natural, not performative. No spectacle, just style worn with ease.

The future of sex is queer, coded, and unapologetically personal. In 2035, AI boyfriends and sex robots aren’t replacing connection — they’re expanding it. A playful look at how technology...

HBO Max’s Heated Rivalry is already viral: steamy locker rooms, eight years of enemies-to-lovers tension, and actors whose chemistry jumps off the screen. Connor Story and Hudson Williams spill the...

White Party Bangkok AGM, powered by ThePack — a night of bodies, movement, and underwear made to last longer than the music. Mostly photos. Very little sleep.

Mental health is a critical aspect of overall well-being that affects people of all genders. However, men face unique challenges when it comes to mental health that often go unrecognized...

Christmas is knocking on your door and the New Years is right around the corner! But instead of the typical festive cheer it brings to most, an air of uncertainty...

At the beginning of the AIDS epidemic in the ‘80s and ‘90s, there was very little information about the disease and was initially thought to be a homosexual-only disease due...

Discover Delhi’s hidden queer history — from Sufi saints and Mughal courtiers to forgotten monuments that once celebrated love beyond gender. Queerness was never absent here; it was only waiting...

There’s nothing quite like the love story between gay men and their divas — a bond built on heartbreak, glitter, and survival. From Judy to Mariah, these icons weren’t just...

RuPaul — November’s crown jewel, the Queen of Queens. From ballrooms to Emmys and now action-comedy films, she’s the icon who turned drag into a global revolution and self-love into...

CRISPR has taken another swing at HIV — this time cutting viral DNA out of cells and, in some experiments, keeping it from coming back. It’s not the cure yet,...

Before mesh jocks, Pride underwear, and queer nightlife as we know it, activists risked everything to push LGBTQ+ existence into the light. From Bayard Rustin organizing the March on Washington...

There’s something magnetic about a gogo boy — neon lights, sweat, and swagger wrapped in fantasy. But behind the glitter is labor and culture: performance, connection, and queer joy in...

September is a month of transition. The sun lingers but shadows stretch longer. Pride glitter is still in your hair, yet the first cool nights whisper that the season is...

The Soft Dom is rewriting the rulebook on dominance — swapping intimidation for intimacy and proving that power can be as tender as it is thrilling. In queer culture, especially...

For today’s LGBTQ+ generation, especially Gen Z, healing goes beyond bubble baths and face masks. Therapy has become a joyful act of resistance, a way to move from survival mode...

Trickster, shapeshifter, chaos twink of Norse myth… and, yes, the god who once turned into a mare and gave birth to an eight-legged foal. In pre-Christian Viking culture, this wasn’t...

You matched on Grindr. He says he’s masc. You meet up. He’s wearing grey sweats, barely speaks, and orders plain chicken breast. Suddenly you’re wondering: is he “masc,” or does he...

(in the Best Way) You know that feeling when a book doesn’t just entertain you — it reprograms your thinking? Like suddenly, you're seeing yourself, your habits, your relationships, or your...

Language is fashion for your mouth — it changes with the seasons, makes bold statements, and sometimes… it doesn’t age well. In queer Gen Z culture, language is a runway...

  There was a time when a gay home party meant watching RuPaul’s Drag Race reruns with takeout and a few close friends — maybe a bottle of rosé if...

Yes, you read that right. There’s a clinic in New York where people go to enhance their bulge — and no, it’s not science fiction, it’s 2025.

Just months after the bill passed, the country has seen a measurable uplift in its national mood. According to the World Happiness Report 2025 Thailand climbed nine spots from its...

When Bain came out as gay in 2025, it wasn’t just personal — it was historic. In a tightly controlled industry, his honesty cracked open space for queer visibility. And...

ThePACK’s latest drop is here—and it’s serving body, boldness, and back-from-the-vault heat. From the return of the iconic Eat It Thong, to new glammed-up additions in the Argus collection, and...

From rooftop Pride celebrations in Bangkok to candlelit vigils in Manchester, the rest of 2025 is packed with powerful and joyful LGBTQ+ events around the world. Whether you're marching, dancing,...

From Tokyo to São Paulo, queerness lights up the world in mesh, glitter, heels, and defiance. Under the theme “Navigating Challenges and Celebrating Diversity,” we’re not just showing up —...

U.S. tariff changes are reshaping how small, queer-led brands like ThePack ship to customers — and we’re meeting the moment with transparency, resilience, and heart. While free shipping to the...

Get the inside scoop on RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars 10 — from the queens’ fierce runway looks to the Pit Crew stealing scenes (and hearts). Meet Manúk, the breakout...

From the co-founders of ThePack Underwear, this new year's message explores how prioritizing yourself in 2025 can lead to self-discovery and self-empowerment. A reminder to live authentically, embrace resilience &...

Whether you're more comfortable swiping right on an app or giving a knowing glance in a bar, remember that you're participating in a long and rich tradition of queer culture....

As September 23rd, 2024 approaches, the LGBTQ+ community and allies worldwide prepare to celebrate Bisexual Awareness Week. This annual observance, from September 16th to September 23rd, culminates in Celebrate Bisexuality...

Within our community, few elements are as intriguing and colourful as the hanky code. This silent language of desire and identity, expressed through simple handkerchiefs, has been a fascinating aspect...

Embracing diversity in relationship choices means recognizing that different approaches can lead to fulfilling, healthy partnerships. What matters most is that all parties feel respected, valued and consensually engaged ....

LadyBunny's journey from a small-town kid with big dreams to an internationally recognized drag icon is a testament to her talent, resilience & unique vision. Her contributions to drag, comedy...

For years, a prevailing notion has suggested that "bigger is better," particularly regarding male anatomy. This belief has permeated various aspects of gay culture, from casual conversations to dating app...

Amsterdam Gay Pride is a truly unforgettable experience that should be on every LGBTI traveller's bucket list. With its iconic Canal Parade, vibrant street parties, and cultural events, it's a...

Yes, circuit parties have evolved since their disco-era inception. Yes, they've weathered criticism, both from outside the LGBTQ+ community and within it. But their enduring popularity speaks to a fundamental...

The gay community has always been at the forefront of redefining what love can look like. We've fought for the right to love openly, marry & build families that might...

The story of June 28, 1969, isn't just about a bar, a riot or a movement. It's about the night when a group of people—marginalized, criminalized & pushed into the shadows—stood...

We've some incredible news to share with you, and it's going to make your hearts swell with joy. Thailand, the land of smiles, has officially legalized same-sex marriage! This historic...

As we navigate the complexities of body image and self-perception, naked swimming emerges as a powerful catalyst for personal growth and transformation. By immersing ourselves in this liberating experience, we...

Fashion is not merely about aesthetics; it is a means of self-expression, a catalyst for self-discovery & a celebration of the resilience and strength of the LGBTQ+ community. In the intricate...

As we celebrate the remarkable journey of the Dykes on Bikes, we are reminded that progress is not achieved through complacency but through the unwavering determination and collective action of...

São Paulo Pride, officially known as La Parada do Orgulho GLBT de São Paulo, is an annual celebration of the LGBTQIA+ community that takes over the streets of Brazil's largest...

Their courage and excellence are worthy of celebration today and for generations to come. In their world-class examples, we can see the very best of what is possible when we...

As the summer of 2024 approaches, the LGBTQ+ community and allies are gearing up for a season of celebration, self-expression, and unforgettable adventures. From the streets of Ho Chi Minh...

The rise of the men's lingerie look has been one of the most significant men's fashion stories of the last few years. DNA spoke to Thijs van Herten, Creative Director...

The term “Peter Pan syndrome” refers to the popular perception that some adult men never fully grow up. Derived from J.M. Barrie’s fictional children’s character Peter Pan, who never aged...

Introduction Pre-exposure Prophylaxis, or PREP, refers to the daily use of antiretroviral drugs by HIV-negative individuals to prevent contracting the virus that causes AIDS. When taken consistently, PrEP has been...

The rainbow pride flag is likely the most widely recognized symbol of the LGBTQ+ community worldwide. But over the past four decades, dozens of pride flags have emerged representing the...

Knowing about the composition of your underwear will help you to enjoy the products you purchase. Every fabric has their own qualities and benefits, and in this quick rundown we'll list...

  In the 1980s, the AIDS epidemic devastated the gay community in America. As the deadly virus spread unabated, fear and misinformation compounded the tragedy. Many gay men afflicted with...

March 12th, 1987 saw ordinary women, men and queer individuals transform into tireless activists under the mantle of ACT UP. Mayor Koch’s New York and President Reagan’s America would never...

"Flesh is my favorite fabric." So declared Leigh Bowery, the Australian performance artist, club promoter, and fashion designer who made an indelible mark on avant-garde circles in 1980s London through...

Sylvia Rivera, a transgender woman, was born in 1951 in New York City to a Puerto Rican father and a Venezuelan mother. Assigned male at birth, she faced early challenges...

In recent years, the terrain of motherhood has blossomed brilliantly, recognizing the variety of family formations and embracing diversity. Most gay families include one or more LGBTQ+ parents. Same-sex couple...

In the vast digital landscape of online dating and social media, the intersection of identity and sexuality often takes center stage. Take my recent chat with Kevin on Grindr, for...

Polari: Decoding the Hidden Language Used by LGBTQ+ in the 20th Century - A Journey into Its Rich History At a time when discrimination and societal prejudice against the members...

Looking to spice up your wardrobe or something with a lil’ more flair for your next party? We have a couple of sensual and all-so-feisty fits that are perfect for...

January is here and it’s time to celebrate the birthdays of a few queer icons! We couldn’t give a shoutout to everyone but here’s a handful of those that’s left...

Through time, the ideals and social norms of the world changes and evolves, and so do we as people. As many parts of the world become more accepting of our...

In January 1972, David Bowie announced to Melody Maker’s Michael Watts that he was bisexual. His announcement came at the beginning of Britain’s glam rock craze and just six months...

Happy New Year! The countdown is over and here comes the endless conversations about everyone’s new year resolutions. I know, I know, it gets annoying hearing about all the new...

On the 10th of December 1948, the United Nations General Assembly adopted and proclaimed the Universal Declaration of Human Rights (UDHR) resulting in the international celebration of the Human Rights...

Embrace the cold and celebrate love this winter with a dazzling array of events and parties that shine a spotlight on the LGBTQ+ community. Our curated list of queer festive...

It's December and it's time to celebrate the birthdays of some incredible icons in our community! Get ready embrace the vibrant energy of theseindividuals who have left an indelible mark...

Being queer means having a world of sexual exploration at your fingertips. That exploration often takes place at sex parties and orgies. Whether you’re new to queer sex or a...

Transgender Day of Remembrance is held annually on November 20th to commemorate and pay tribute to transgender persons who have lost their lives.  The unfortunate and sad killing of murder...

It's November and it's time to celebrate the birthdays of some incredible icons in our community! Get ready embrace the vibrant energy of theseindividuals who have left an indelible mark...

 ... A CATCH UP WITH FOUNDERS RHEECE & THIJS  Unapologetic, evocative yet without compromise on quality and comfort ThePack celebrates its 4th birthday and we sit down with Rheece and...

In the recesses of London's East End, a dimly lit side street harbors a mysterious black box of a building adorned with graffiti. This enigmatic structure, used to be known...

White Party Bangkok, Asia's largest gay New Year Festival, stands as a legendary event that beckons revelers from around the globe seeking a blend of festivities, community connection, and much...

Last month, we gave you 10 tips to be a better bottom. A right on hit and fun read! So this month, we decided to entertain you with an article...

  Let's take a trip through the history of the jockstrap—a fascinating journey, indeed. In 1874, a gentleman by the name of C. F. Bennett crafted the very first jockstrap,...

It's October and it is LatinX LGBT history month and that's a great opportunity to reflect on our collective history. While they’ve been at the forefront of nearly every queer...

It's October and it's time to celebrate the birthdays of some incredible icons in our community! Get ready embrace the vibrant energy of theseindividuals who have left an indelible mark...

In the throes of the 1980s AIDS crisis, a powerful and enduring symbol of compassion and unity emerged - the AIDS Memorial Quilt. A poignant amalgamation of art, activism, and...

As gay men, a good portion of some of our lives will be dedicated to anal sex. At its best, bottoming is a mind-blowing experience that feels really good. At...

Everyone has a sexual orientation and gender identity. Sexual orientation is who you are romantically or physically attracted to. Gender identity is the internal sense of being male, female, both...

In the past year, a revelation has emerged from a comprehensive study conducted by The Trevor Project. The study found that a significant proportion of LGBTQ+ youth have contemplated taking...

It's September and it's time to celebrate the birthdays of some incredible icons in our community! Get ready embrace the vibrant energy of these individuals who have left an indelible...

Lace and lingerie, once mainly linked with women's fashion, have stormed into men's closets, bringing a fresh vibe to how guys express themselves. This shift isn't just about clothes; it's...

HOW TO CARE ABOUT YOUR LEATHER HARNESSES AND GEAR? The reasons for leather’s appeal aren’t hard to understand. It’s a material our ancestors used for clothes, pouches, and a variety...

If you’re someone who is looking to add some spice into your party life but is kinda confused with what to wear, or if you've ever asked yourself the question:...

So, you've stumbled upon our "Bussy Collection" and might have raised an eyebrow or two, wondering what on earth possessed us to choose this name. Well, let's clear the air! "Bussy"...

Fashion week is around the corner and with the September issue of Vogue always eagerly anticipated, we shed light on some of our most impactful sisters within the fashion industry....

August is here, and it's time to celebrate the birthdays of some incredible icons in our community! Get ready to sing, dance, jump and embrace the vibrant energy of these 5...

In the opening of her 2021 Showtime documentary, "Nothing Compares," Sinead O'Connor revealed that she turned to music as therapy during her childhood when formal therapy was not available. However, the...

July is here, and it's time to celebrate the birthdays of some incredible icons in our community! Get ready to sing, dance, jump and embrace the vibrant energy of these 5...

The alluring world of Shibari, or Japanese rope bondage, has captivated the hearts and minds of many, including our community. Characterized by intricate and beautiful knots and patterns, Shibari is...

A European man, known as the "Geneva patient," may become the sixth person in the world to be cured of HIV, marking a potentially major development in the fight against...

Music, Politics, and LGBTQ Advocacy: A Call for Lasting Impact from Pop Stars... What are your thoughts? Do you think artists should respect local laws in different areas or does music...

Welcome to our delightful "Stay In and Watch" segment! Grab your popcorn and your tissues coz we're embarking on a cinematic journey spurting with happy endings.In this edition we've curated...

Barbie has been lighting up the screens and hearts of audiences for years, but did you know she's been waving the rainbow flag long before Greta Gerwig or Margot Robbie...

We're not here to just talk; we want to make a difference! ThePack is standing up against the Ugandan Anti-Homosexuality Act 2023 and we encourage YOU TO JOIN US. We call for...

June is here, and it's time to celebrate the birthdays of some incredible pop-culture gay icons! Get ready to sing, dance, and embrace the vibrant energy of these 5 individuals who have...

Alright, let's dive into the world of anal bleaching! It's this cosmetic procedure where you lighten up the skin around your backdoor. Yeah, you got it! It's become quite a...

These five icons represent a wide range of talents and contributions to pop culture and the LGBTQ+ community. Their birthdays are a great opportunity to celebrate their legacies and inspire...

In the United States, around 1.1 million individuals and globally, about 39 million people are currently living with HIV (human immunodeficiency virus). Once considered a potentially fatal diagnosis, living with...

Embark on an adventure to some of the most fabulous destinations during this colorful month. Pack your rainbow flags, dance shoes & an open heart!

Whether you identify as LGBTQ+ or as an ally, you play a crucial role in the ongoing Rainbow Revolution. Stay true, stay strong & stay proud!

Tina's influence extended far beyond the realm of music. As an LGBTQ+ icon, she inspired countless individuals to embrace their authentic selves. Her unwavering support for the community and her...

May is an important month for our community, with two significant events being celebrated: the International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia (IDAHOTB) on May 17th, and Harvey Milk Day...

After the latest RPDR season 15 winner Sasha Colby was crowned, and Rep. Jill Tokuda giving a speech congratulating her on her win and honoring Hawaiian Mahu Trans culture, let’s...

 A glimpse into a year that intends to be very different than the last three... It’s been a tough few years for the world collectively, but 2023 will be the...

and where it will end up shortly before Milan Fashion Week, Jonathan Anderson had published a post on his Instagram profile that read «Getting ready for fashion week». The photo in question depicts...

Pride gatherings are rooted in the arduous history of minority groups who have struggled for decades to overcome prejudice and be accepted for who they are

 It's a special month coz this month is LGBTQIA+ History Month! We're proud to honor the history of our community — where we’ve been and where we’re going now. At...

What if a guy isn't a top, a bottom or even versatile? What about gay men who have never engaged in anal sex and never will, ever? I think they...

Pole dancing isn’t just for strippers. In fact, it predates strippers by 1000 years long before thong clad women in platform heels stripped on poles in clubs. Pole performance was...

Over 40,000 people have signed up to get a seat at London's first ever naked restaurant, but don't panic if you didn't snag a ticket. There are plenty of other...

How masculinity is morphing and modernizing, according to 18 influential people who are shaping our culture now. BY NORA CAPLAN-BRICKERWelcome to GQ's New Masculinity issue, an exploration of the ways...

A VPL / visible penis line, like a penis bulge, refers to the protrusion of the penis or the penis and balls as seen through clothing. The difference with a...

WATCH THE INTERVIEW BELOWSIGN THE PETITION In an interview with DNA’s Founding Editor, Andrew Creagh, Afghanistan’s first openly gay public figure, Nemat Sadat, has described the dire circumstances many LGBTQIA+...

The American pop star talks LGBTQ+ visibility in music and the need for everyone to stand in solidarity with our trans siblings. “I am so excited about what Lil Nas...

"All-gender" or “gender nonconforming” is a term given to people who don’t conform with the gender norms that are expected of them.The term usually refers to gender expression or presentation...

  It’s PRIDE MONTH!   It’s finally here! For some it's unquestionable... the best month of the year is in June!   The Love that’s felt throughout our community on a global...

Deciding which type of fabric for your underwear & partywear is an important decision, as fabric can have countless qualities.

Source: https://itsabouttheman.com/blogs/news/the-pack-review                Brief Engineered Mesh   With discrete writing on the waistband saying "Own Your Territory" the funky brand logo on the waist band, these men's...

We Wish Our Thai Friends & Family a Very Happy Songkran Festival Celebration!   // Songkran is Thailand’s most famous festival. An important event on the Buddhist calendar, this water festival marks...

#TransgenderDayOfVisibility Observed on March 31, Transgender Day of Visibility (TDoV) is an international day of awareness and celebration built from decades of activism in response to the intentional exclusion of...

This month, ThePack pays tribute to a man whose all-too-brief life continues to influence the way we think about gender, performance, drag and the art of dressing up for a...

In our effort to amplify the voices and stories of movers and shakers who are making their mark in their industry and who are worthy to be recognized all year...

*** Every February, we celebrate a special holiday. And no, I'm not talking about Valentine's Day. I'm referring to the 28 (or 29) days we dedicate to honoring Black History...

*** Implicit or unconscious biases become evident in many different domains of society. On an interpersonal level, they can manifest in simply daily interactions. This occurs when certain actions (or...

Source: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2020/dec/20/long-fight-for-justice-over-death-of-greek-lgbt-activist-zak-kostopoulos (20 December 2020) Zak Kostopoulos’s family say murder charges must be brought in a case that has exposed deep homophobia. Days after his death in the heart of Athens,...

The vision of the Pack Underwear is to lead the industry with purpose by giving the greatest sense of belonging to the LGBTQ + community - by offering daring and...

We bet you've tried at least one form of yoga that's been out of your comfort zone, and if it's got you to call yourself a daredevil, think again. People...

Here's a fun emoji quiz to keep you entertained whilst you're queer-antining at home! What are ya waiting for... quiz away!! 1. 🎈 🎈 🏠 2. 🐍 🦧 🐅 📙...